You know you’re ready for your person - but somehow, healthy love still feels out of reach.
You feel like you’ve done so much work on yourself - yet the same patterns keep showing up.
Emotionally unavailable connections.
Mixed signals.
Breadcrumbs.
Moments where you feel hopeful - followed by that familiar drop in your chest.
You tell yourself you're done settling.
And then someone gives you just enough attention to make you wonder if maybe this time is different.
You get attached.
You start reading into texts.
You notice every shift in their energy.
You tell yourself not to overthink it.
And then they pull away.
And suddenly you're right back in that familiar place -
wondering what happened, what you did wrong, and why you seem to keep ending up here.
You can say "I know I'm worthy of love" all day long.
But if some deeper part of you still expects love to be inconsistent, uncertain, or something you have to earn...
you'll keep feeling drawn to what your nervous system already knows.
There is not anything wrong with you.
And this isn’t because you’re “doing something wrong.”
It’s because you can't consciously think your way out of a pattern that your subconscious still recognizes as familiar.
You can *know* what healthy love looks like.
You can *want* a secure relationship.
You can *promise yourself* you won't settle again.
And still find yourself emotionally pulled towards the same dynamics.
Because your subconscious has its own definition of what is safe, familiar, and normal.
It's Not That You Haven't Done the Work...
You've probably already done the work that's supposed to fix this.
Therapy.
Journaling.
Reading every book on attachment styles.
Telling yourself, out loud, in the mirror, that you deserve better.
And none of it was wrong. But most of it was aimed at your thoughts - and this pattern was never really about what you think.
It's about what your nervous system recognizes as safe.
You can understand your anxious attachment perfectly and still feel your stomach drop when a text goes unanswered for three hours.
You can know exactly what you "should" want and still feel more chemistry with someone who's inconsistent than with someone who's simply, calmly there.
That's not a failure of insight. It's because insight lives in a part of the brain that your subconscious doesn't answer to.
Align With Love doesn't ask you to think your way into different choices.
It works underneath the thinking - so healthy love stops feeling like something you have to convince yourself to want, and starts feeling like the thing you're naturally drawn toward.
That’s exactly why I created Align With Love -
a gentle yet powerful 21-day ritual designed to shift the subconscious relationship patterns and emotional conditioning that have been shaping who you're drawn to, what you're willing to tolerate, and how you respond when someone pulls away.
As those patterns begin to shift, healthy love can start to feel less foreign - and more familiar.
It’s about becoming someone for whom healthy love feels
safe, familiar, and natural to receive.
When healthy love starts to feel safe and familiar internally - you begin relating differently externally.
You notice different things.
You respond differently.
You stop mistaking inconsistency for chemistry.
You stop chasing clarity from people who aren't offering it.
You stop abandoning yourself to keep a connection alive.
What's Included:
Week 1:
Creating Safety
& Self-Love
You’ll begin by softening emotional armour and creating a felt sense of safety and worthiness within yourself.
• A short daily meditation / hypnosis to ground your nervous system and connect with your self-worth.
• A guided EFT tapping video to release self-worth blocks and feel good about yourself.
• A longer hypnosis journey to dissolve old stories and begin accepting and loving yourself, just as you are.
Week 2:
Embodying
Love
This week is about learning to live from love - rather than searching for it.
• A short daily meditation / hypnosis to anchor love as a steady inner state.
• A targeted EFT tapping video to release what’s keeping your heart closed off.
• A deeper hypnosis journey to embody love as something familiar, safe, and natural - and helping you show up in all of your relationships from a heart-centered place.
Week 3:
Magnetising
Aligned Love
You'll begin embodying the energy of someone who expects reciprocity - and, more importantly, acts from that expectation.
You'll release the urgency to make something work, the attachment to potential, and the tendency to chase clarity from people who aren't meeting you.
Instead, you'll practice recognizing and choosing relationships that feel mutual, grounded, and emotionally available.
Imagine...
You move through the world with greater peace in your heart.
You show up to dates feeling calm and grounded.
You feel emotionally open - and anchored into your worth.
There’s no chasing.
No proving.
No tightness in your chest when someone pulls back.
Just a quiet confidence.
A grounded presence.
And the steady knowing that love is coming -
and you’ll recognise it when it arrives.
This is for you if tend to say to yourself...
💬 "I keep doing everything 'right' and still end up in the same situation." - You've done real self-work, and you're tired of being told to just do more of it.
💬 "I know the red flags. I see them... but I stay anyway." - Awareness hasn't been the problem. Something underneath it keeps overriding what you know.
💬 "The second someone pulls away, I can't think about anything else." - You want to feel calm in uncertainty instead of consumed by it.
💬 "I'm scared that if I stop chasing, I'll end up alone." - Some part of you equates letting go with losing your chance at love.
💬 "I don't even know what 'healthy love' would feel like in my body." - You can describe it in theory. You've never actually felt safe inside it.
If any of that sounds like your own inner voice...this ritual was built for you.
Why this works:
This ritual works because it doesn’t try to “fix” you.
It gently shifts:
how safe your nervous system feels around love
how your subconscious expects love to show up
how you hold yourself emotionally in connection
By working at this level, patterns begin to dissolve without force - and love starts responding differently to you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What if I miss a day?
Nothing breaks. This isn’t about perfection. You simply return when you are ready.
Q: Do I need experience with meditation or hypnosis?
No. These audios are gentle, accessible, and designed for everyday life.
Q: Will this work if I’m single / dating / healing?
Yes. This journey meets you exactly where you are - it’s about you, not your relationship status.
Q: Can I join if I’m already in a relationship?
Yes - the 21 day ritual can help you connect with deeper self-love, and embody more unconditional love in your relationship. While primarily intended for single folks, if you're in a relationship, it can support you in shifting the dynamics of your current relationship.
Q: Is this live or self-paced?
This journey is designed to be self-paced, so you can move through it in a way that feels supportive and sustainable for you.
When do I get access?
Your access to the first module will be granted immediately upon registration.
Each subsequent module will be dripped out over week 2 and week 3.
Join the ritual today and gain instant access
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About Me
I know how excruciating heartbreak can be - I’ve been there myself, many times before.
When my own heart was shattered, I realized I wasn’t just grieving the relationship. I was bumping into deeper wounds around worthiness, rejection, and betrayal. So I turned to the tools I’d trained in - Clinical Hypnotherapy, EFT tapping, Rapid Resolution Therapy - and applied them specifically to healing from heartbreak.
Everything shifted. I released the heaviness in my heart. I rebuilt my sense of self-worth. And I discovered that heartbreak doesn’t have to mean endless suffering. It can be the turning point into freedom, confidence, and joy - and can make space to attract healthy love.
Now, I guide my clients through the same transformation. My approach isn’t about talking in circles or “just staying strong.” It’s about reprogramming the subconscious and calming the nervous system, so the shifts are deep, lasting, and soul-level.
Because love was never meant to feel like something you have to brace yourself for - it’s something your heart and body can learn to feel safe opening to again.
Clients describe working with me as:
Safe, supportive, & nonjudgmental -
like being held by a trusted friend.
Transformative -
experiencing real relief after years of trying other methods.
Empowering -
walking away with confidence and tools for life.
Spiritually nourishing -
healing not just the mind, but the soul.
This is your invitation to choose a different baseline.
To walk into the next chapter of your life with a steadier heart,
a softer nervous system, and the embodied knowing that love doesn’t need to be chased.
✨ Join Align With Love now and start your ritual today!